My Definition Of Toxic

Hey me again… ever since lockdown I feel like we are all trying to get our shit together … I have been so quiet , literally hibernating to meet deadlines and focus on studying for my first exam! Scary I know… not prepared at all. But anyway here I am.. everyone seems to throw theContinue reading “My Definition Of Toxic”

I am A Difficult Woman – But I love Being A Difficult Woman

Females are secretly celebrated in society for being kind, gentle and delicate, any sign of weakness and a woman is usually taken advantage of. Though I haven’t mastered the art of saying no and standing up for every belief, I am developing the strength of a difficult woman. I’m beginning to stop letting others voiceContinue reading “I am A Difficult Woman – But I love Being A Difficult Woman”

Mental Illness and Relationships – How to Make It Work?

I’m creative, funny, conversational. With the number of podcasts and documentaries I watch, you couldn’t say I have nothing to talk about. But I’m also someone who struggles with anxiety, PTSD and sporadic depression. From my experiences, I know making a relationship with mental illness work isn’t always easy. They’re the ‘bad days’ – whenContinue reading “Mental Illness and Relationships – How to Make It Work?”

Sleeping With A Bra On..

Have you ever wondered how victims handle it so well? How they hold themselves? Have you ever wondered what it is like to sleep with a bra on because you are too scared to sleep at night? Have you ever laid in your bed sleeping with one eye open with your phone and keys rightContinue reading “Sleeping With A Bra On..”

THE MAGIC WAND…

Hey Girls… You know what is coming? Oh yes.. The WAND! Sometimes my feelings become so strong they’re unmanageable. Sometimes, I’m so caught up in my emotions I can’t function before funneling my affections into something outside of myself. Sometimes I experience love to a degree that I have an unstoppable need to profess itContinue reading “THE MAGIC WAND…”

WHAT IS THE MOST INTIMATE ACT?

For me, it’s oral sex – sitting on a guy’s face. I wanted to say something more profound and deep – chatting all night, sharing my deepest secrets; nursing a lover back to health. But the minute I typed the question, the thought rummaged past my wondering desire to drink decaf coffee. Up close toContinue reading “WHAT IS THE MOST INTIMATE ACT?”

Rules About Morning Sex

Hi All, I hope you are well? So this has been saved in my drafts for a good while and I thought I would share. If you cringe I am sorry. I love sex. Sex at ANY time of day is just fine, as far as I’m concerned. But there’s one part of sex that I reallyContinue reading “Rules About Morning Sex”

PLACES I HAVE VISITED IN 2020

Hey Everyone, hope you are all keeping well? I always get asked how I find the nicest places? Whats my secret? and that I should make a blog of the places i have visited. So here it is, here is my post dedicated to places I visited in 2020 and some tips to help youContinue reading “PLACES I HAVE VISITED IN 2020”

Learn To Love Yourself.

Hi Guys, Now we are heading into the New year, I thought I would write a blog post on How To Love Yourself. Learn to love yourself more when we go into 2021. Your love will keep you warm on days when everything feels cold, from a cup of hot coffee to your best friend’sContinue reading “Learn To Love Yourself.”

the importance of space in a relationship.

Whenever I’m in a relationship, I’ve always found the concept of you do your thing, I do mine and we meet in the middle. Don’t get me wrong, one of the most amazing things about being with someone is actually being with that someone and spending quality time together. But I cannot stress enough howContinue reading “the importance of space in a relationship.”